Tuesday, December 27, 2022

After a long pause

 December 28, 2022


I read an article this morning in the Wall Street Journal that has reminded me (again) that I need to (and want to) preserve our memories so that we can recall in later years where we were and what we did.  Some day we might not be able to recreate today's memories.  I'm sue we'll have memories from the future, but they may be different from what's happening in our lives now.  So, another attempt.

So much has happened in the recent past, but I think the highlight of all that is and has happened is the wonderful relationships we have with Evan and Anna.  We stay in close contact with them (more so Anna) on a daily or least weekly basis.  It is so great to have grandchildren who still love to be around us and enjoy things with us.  Both are at NCSU, with Anna a Senior and Evan a Sophmore.  There will be a lot more about them in future posts (I hope)

Slade and Candace are enjoying very successful careers with Cisco.

Clara and I have continued to enjoy good health and still living the dream.  The mountain home is a solid income producing Short Term Rental (Airbnb and VRBO) and we get to spend a few weeks of the year there (mostly doing maintenance, but it's still a favorite place for me).  Our guest house in Beaufort has become a favorite for many vacationers, both repeats and new.  And in the summer, we meet some of the greatest people ever and enjoy watching them enjoy our hometown.

In early 2021, our neighbor, Wendell Lantz started talking about purchasing a townhouse in a new development about a mile from our home.  Beau Coast is a new resort community that is being developed that is really having a large impact on Beaufort (all positive in our opiinions).  Anyway,, Slade, Candace Clara and I decided to take the leap and we purchased a townhome next to Wendells.  Clara and Candace went to work seeking deals to furnish it, and by June, 2021, it was ready for rentals.  It started out well and has paid for itself so far.  And it's another great way to meet people and see them enjoy our hometown.  

We enjoy our summers in Beaufort, but a new highlight is spending winters in Florida.  We have visited Upriver RV Resort several times in the past on our way to Key West for the winters.  But after the bad experience in March 2020 at Key West, plus a lot of changes that in the management and operation, we decided for the winter of 2021-2022 that we'd skip Key West and settle in Upriver.  It's been a good decision.  First of all, we were parked next to a perfect couple from Michigan the first year.  We got along well and enjoyed many things together.  So this year (20222-2023), we made arrangements to get our same sites next to each other and enjoy our continuing freindship and fun together.

This is my first post-pause update, and I hope that I will continue to "make my self" do this until I get caught up.  And add lots of pictures.  It's been too long.

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Autumn gets married






Autumn's Grandparents






Slade turns 50

October 16, 2019

My Goodness!

My baby boy has reached the half-century mark!  I'm too young (three-quarters of a century) to have a son that old.

Jethro, Clara Prevost Quidley, Jim Lewis, Marie Mann (Jethro's sister), Mary Lewis (Jethro's sister) 


Jethro



Willard and Clara Inscoe, David and Clara Inscoe, Jethro and Clara Quidley, Slade Inscoe, and Missy (the dog)


But he is, and we are so proud of him and what he is accomplishing with his life.

He has a beautiful, loving family, has done extremely well in the corporate world (Cisco), and is just a great person.  As important as these accomplishments are, the greatest is that he and Candace have, together, given us two wonderful grandchildren.  Nothing in life has ever prepared us for the love and pride we have in Anna and Evan.

We celebrated his half-century mark by visiting one of Raleigh's long-standing restaurants - 42nd Street Oyster Bar.  Clara and I went there when we were dating, Slade and Candace followed during their courtship, and now we have the third generation there.  And it doesn't seem to have changed at all in those 50+ years.


As he turns 50, I am reminded that when he was born in October 1969, I was flying B-52's in Southeast Asia.  In fact, as best we can determine, at the moment of his birth I was on a bombing run near Danang, Vietnam.



In the following 50 years, all of us have gone through many lives.

Slade, from a baby in Blytheville AFB, Arkansas, visiting his Grandparents in Beaufort and Nashville, NC,  growing up and living around Asheville, NC, graduating from TC Roberson High School in Arden NC, graduating from North Carolina State University, marrying Candace, the birth of Anna, then Evan, to a successful career with Cisco, and many moves and events in between.

Us - Wow!  In those fifty years, we have lived a beautiful dream.  Leaving Air Force active duty, starting to work with Carolina Power & Light Company in Asheville, Clara working for Memorial Mission Hospital, moving from Weaverville to Arden (where we lived for 20+ years), moving up the ranks at CP&L, moving to Haywood County, then Garner, then New Bern, retiring from both the Air Force Reserve and CP&L, working in Economic Development and Chamber of Commerce in Mitchell County, moving to the Economic Development in Carteret County, and finally really retiring.

It all seems like yesterday.

And throughout all these transitions, moves, ups, downs, despairs, and exhilarations, the one constant source of happiness has been seeing our son grow and prosper.








Dylan Wedding June 23,2019





Mckinna

Autumn


















Wednesday, May 6, 2020

Dylan gets ready to get married (Rehearsal)

May 22

The Lantz's are building a home on the lot behind us.  They had purchased the home several years ago.

The house that was on the lot was too small for their family, so they are building a new home after deconstructed the existing house.

The house building just happens to coincide with the marriages of two of their children this summer.  First Dylan (May 22) and coming in October, Autumn.  And both are getting married here in Beaufort.

To accommodate the family and friends, we packed everybody we could in our house and the bungalow.  Additionally, we hooked up the Motorhome in the driveway.

The wedding rehearsal was in our backyard (it's a relatively simple wedding).


Grandparents of the groom

The wedding alter (i.e fish cleaning station)


The man!

All the wedding beauty

Dylan and Shannon

Rehearsal at the fish cleaning station 


Cole and step-grandmother

Cole is Grandmother's escort

Dylan and Mom


Are you sure?

The next bride and groom with Grandpa David

Some of the wedding party enjoying a traditional bar b que dinner in the carport.